Have you been in a relationship where everything was great at the beginning, she/he seemed amazing and then things began to drift. Things changed. Or maybe you've been in relationships that just seemed difficult to maintain. Or have you bounced from one to another only to end up feeling like it was the same thing all over again? You're not alone.
SUMMARY:
1. When we begin to come from a "take" position or expecting from a relationship, we're in trouble. In that scenario, we have developed the wrong mindset. If we begin to expect others to "lift us up" we are simply trying to fill a void within ourselves.
2. If we desire a healthy relationship it's essential that we can be happy alone, happy with ourselves, happy with our lifestyle and focus on our own personal development. Otherwise, we will continue to take in relationships, always trying to fill the void. We're looking for a relationship to make us whole. With over 50% of marriages ending I'd say that many of us are trying to do just that or we begin to "expect" our significant other to bring the joy, the happiness, the fun, the jokes, the love.....again, coming from a take position versus giving, like we once did.
3. We must become the person we desire. Too often we expect the other person to have _______ character, heart, integrity, energy, passion, drive, ambition etc...... all while we lack it ourselves. First, we must 'be' the person we desire to be with.
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